Nothing comes close I'm afraid! You could try Gravel, I suppose. Failing that, OnRush for something a bit different - or go back to Burnout Paradise. If you wanted something way less arcade-y I'd highly suggest playing Project CARS 2 - plenty of different disciplines to get your teeth into there, for example the amazingly well executed Rally X. Dirt 4 might also tickle your fancy as it is much easier to get into as an arcade racer fan.
Reading through this has actually been pretty tough. I'm not entirely sure what the overall message is. But good on you.